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  • Myspecialdates com has 1.6 star rating based on 16 customer reviews. Consumers are mostly dissatisfied.

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  • Pros: No pros, Beautiful encouraging members to chat with, Killing time.
    Cons: All the women are employed or have their photos being used, Bad customer service, Can not access.

  • Recent recommendations regarding this business are as follows: "Stay away at all cost", "Avoid don’t go near this is a scam", "Avoid this place don’t go near it will take all your money for nothing biggest scam ever woman aren’t even real interested in photos of you so they can make phony profiles they send you expensive videos to look at for 5 seconds this place will bankrupt you I will see if I can take legal action I’m going to my attorney I want some if not all of my money back I talked to over 800 woman since November met no one ever stay away or you’ll lose your money such a horrible experience when your a single man divorced just looking for a date this place broke my heart", "Don’t use the site! It is a scam!", "Stay away from this company! Scam".

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Top Myspecialdates com Reviews

Positive Review

"I found my true love on your site"

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Could you please pass message on to my darling That I don't get paid until 27 March can not contact. Till then thanks for your help

Critical Review

"This site is a criminal enterprise that uses paid employees to coerce men to spend lots of money. These ladies will show everything and tell you what you want to hear, but the problem its not them"

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This company is a complete scam from the start. On this site, they act like you don't need to spend the $1,500 bucks like you do on their other sites like...

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Ribert S Qoy

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This site is a criminal enterprise that uses paid employees to coerce men to spend lots of money. These ladies will show everything and tell you what you want to hear, but the problem its not them

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Updated by user Jul 01, 2025

I will never use one of these sites again

Original review Jun 30, 2025

This company is a complete scam from the start. On this site, they act like you don't need to spend the $1,500 bucks like you do on their other sites like Sakura or Naomi, and all you need is to get women to send you email, which they won't block. Two problems: the women are employees, and when they finally agree to send you their email after a lot of money has been spent, the emails won't go through!

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Loss:
$3
Pros:
  • No pros
Cons:
  • All the women are employed or have their photos being used

Preferred solution: Full refund

User's recommendation: Stay away at all cost

Orlando P Hvq

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Because for every message, was requesting charges for every letter

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Myspecialdates com - Because for every message, was requesting charges for every letter

I am very disappointed with this page. I have 2 cards, a bank established card and a Walmart debit card.

And the page kept requesting a payment to get a number of letters; it was so ridiculous. I have the option to pay. The website has a great number of hindrances to pay for a few letters to write a message.

They misinform the woman on that page that they requested cost for each letter just to say hello or goodbye. It's *** ridiculous.

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Loss:
$5

User's recommendation: No avoid, they gave me, GOD DAM OBSTACLES, JUST TO POST A HELLO OR GOOD BYE

Nikolaos G Xnb

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| map-marker Cliffside Park, New Jersey

Report scam company

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The company erases all phone numbers and emails sent to girls. They deduct credits from your account at will!

They never answer when you ask them! It is a fake scam company. You can not meet any girl, because they are fake. Dont use this site!

Report them to Federal Trade and Consumer Commission. Dont spend money in a scam site.

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User's recommendation: Don’t use the site! It is a scam!

Nikolaos G Xnb

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| map-marker Cliffside Park, New Jersey

The worst dating site! All women are fake or employees of the company. The company takes out credits from your account at will, and without any explanation.

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Also the company promises free credits at times, but they never give them to you! Dont use this site because you will never find a girl. Everything is fake.

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User's recommendation: Stay away from this site. Everything is fake.

Anonymous
map-marker Staten Island, New York

Big money making scam no one is interested in dating 5 months met no one the woman lie all there interested in is there expensive letter scam and scam video scam they are phony’s I’m interested in mee

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Nothing it should be shut down please investigate Im going to take legal action the woman ask every minute for photos so they can make phony profiles most work for my special dates and the others dont even exist Im heartbroken Im retired on fixed budget I did nothing to deserve to be treated like this I will contact my attorney this is a shame Im begging you to avoid or youll lose your money

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User's recommendation: Avoid this place don’t go near it will take all your money for nothing biggest scam ever woman aren’t even real interested in photos of you so they can make phony profiles they send you expensive videos to look at for 5 seconds this place will bankrupt you I will see if I can take legal action I’m going to my attorney I want some if not all of my money back I talked to over 800 woman since November met no one ever stay away or you’ll lose your money such a horrible experience when your a single man divorced just looking for a date this place broke my heart

Nikolaos G Xnb

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| map-marker Cliffside Park, New Jersey

Scam company

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The company is a scam! All women are fake. You will never meet them, because they are employees of the company using fake names!

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User's recommendation: Don’t use this site, it is a scam

Anonymous
map-marker Melbourne, Victoria

Offering free messaging for a week if you pay and they're not giving it to you and taking more money and not giving you the three free weeks messages is deception low down dog act

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Offering freed messaging for a week on the one website if you pay for some coins they're not giving you the free messy being charging you again more money and instantly running out and no free which messages weeks messages couldn't message for everyone a day

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Tested it for the boys

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Hi all, I hope this review saves you some time so you don't have to go through what I did. I tried it for the boys, to be honest.

Firstly, the website looks okay.

It could be better, but let's be honest, that's not the important part. The overall system is rubbish, if you ask me. There is this 'credit system' where you have to buy with money to do anything (like creating a profile, initiating or responding to messages, even looking at a photo sent to you privately).

You will immediately get bombarded with tons of messages with cheesy and cringy messages prompting you to respond upon signing up. They are almost exactly like bots.

However, I have strong suspicion that these profiles aren't real people, but they are not who they claim to be. I believe they are their own employees chatting up guys, hoping they would pay for credits. One example is that I shared a very personal piece of information with one 'user' just to have it thrown back in my face as a 'pickup line' by a second 'user'. By the way, this information is not mentioned anywhere in my profile, and there is no way anyone could guess it just from the two photos I uploaded.

Big suspect here.

These 'users' would usually respond a little slowly but just fast enough to not have the 2 credits cover you for the time of a message. I believe 2 credits would allow you to chat for 1 min to the same 'user'. Also, when these 'users' send you a 'letter', sometimes they would attach a few more slightly revealing photos with 1 of them being 'free to view' and the other 2 blurred out unless you pay 10 credits each. To be fair, they have a very small notice about paying the 10 credits, but you wouldn't think twice the first few times.

Also, a video costs 50 credits.

I've been strung along by a 'user' claiming to be in the same city as me. She tried to prove that she is real by taking and sending me a fresh photo just to show the outside of her window being daytime at 4 a.m. in the morning local time.

Finally, their online support system is terrible and very unhelpful for the most part. I've requested to have my profile deleted numerous times but each time they would offer a slightly cheaper package for credits.

I've declined each time but only one time I was told that my profile would be deleted in 7 days.

So far, my profile is still active.

Overall, there is only one word I would use to sum up the site: SCAM. You're welcome!

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Loss:
$22
Pros:
  • Killing time
Cons:
  • Scam

Preferred solution: Nothing - just wanting to give an honest review.

Nikolaos G Xnb

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Verified Reviewer
| map-marker Cliffside Park, New Jersey

Scam company

Also they take out credits from your account and dont ever reply to you, if you ask them! They block your phone number or email when you send it to girls , so as to communicate the place that you want to meet with a girl.

They dont want you to communicate with a girl outside of the platform! I will have to report them to the Federal Trade Commission because it is a scam company.

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Pros:
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User's recommendation: Stay away from this company! Scam

Holden M Pyx

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Teasing site

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I suspect there are some underhanded tactics being used. Many women just want to chat, they are not interested in actual dating.

They encourage you to write letters at more expensive rates, send photos and videos that cost you from $4 to $16 to open. Many women are quite lewd (I am not a priss). But if you're seeking a meaningful connection, do you start with how wet your panties are?

Another common practice is 'will you pick me up at the airport'. Yes, there are many beautiful women just waiting to tease you into continuous chats costing hundreds if you are willing.

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Pros:
  • Beautiful encouraging members to chat with
Cons:
  • Members are not interest in dating

Preferred solution: Full disclosure of sites membership policies and billing rates for all members at all locations. Disclosure of the ID's of paid actors, if they exist, and any policies regarding stringing customers along to increase traffic.

User's recommendation: It's a high priced chat room with beautiful women, not for serious relations.

Anonymous
map-marker Staten Island, New York

Stop lying no one meets here this site is a disgrace unless you work here stop lying to the consumers you full of ***

Everyone here is a liar youll never meet anyone here this site should be investigated 7 months over 800 chats stood up the exact same way over 20 times its a video letter number photo scam your asked to provide 20 photos so they can make phony profiles and steal your identity I had over 280 chats at the same time over 225 letters to read the more you text the more it costs no one ever meets here avoid this garbage or youll be bankrupt Im being nice nothing good 7 months all I wanted was a date I received everything but what a scam

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User's recommendation: Avoid don’t go near this is a scam

Blake W Eew
map-marker Waterbury, Connecticut

Why can’t I get on line with you

I cant get back on site Ive been trying and it keeps sending me plewse look into this and it ell melee what Im doingvwrong

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Jim M Gdm

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Can not login

Why do you reject my email address when I try to log into your website? My Australian bank has been accepting it for 25 years and counting.

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Cons:
  • Can not access

Preferred solution: Access to your site

User's recommendation: CAREFUL, or you get rejected for no reason

Anonymous
map-marker Ruskin, Florida

Payment system "currently unavailable"

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need to purchase more credits to continue conversation. Go to payment link & get message "payment system currently unavailable". It is a dead end after spending $60.00 worth of credits

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User's recommendation: don't let credits run out midconversation- when you try to order you might encounter "payment system unavailable" ounter

dfarwig F

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Can't buy credits on the site...Please fix this problem

My bank stopped my card and now I can't buy credits on this site. Please fix the problem.

I have even tried other cards but I still can't buy credits. I am in the middle of an important relationship and I need to be able to continue to talk to her.

Please see what you can do to fix this problem. Thank you, Doug Farwig.

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Loss:
$5000

Preferred solution: Full refund

Kenneth L Kqs

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Verified Reviewer
| map-marker San Diego, California

Never being able to meet someone. The blocks attempts trying to share phone numbers, emails. I can't tell if the women are real or not. They keep askiunnecessary questions for me. Spent much money

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Make it possible for people to actually meet.

Phone numbers not allowed. Never could connect with someone I wanted to meet.

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